Wedding Planning Tips: 4-6 months out
When it comes to wedding planning—whether you're organizing a small wedding or an intimate elopement—a quick Google search will provide you with plenty of timelines and checklists. Online resources like The Knot even offer a 12-month breakdown of when each task should ideally happen. But there are some wedding planning tips and tricks that often go unmentioned.
But beyond the standard checklist, here are a few extra wedding planning tips no one tells you—little things that can make your big day even smoother and more enjoyable!
Footwear
One of the most overlooked wedding planning tips? Breaking in your shoes months ahead. If you’re buying new shoes for your big day—whether they’re flats, heels, or dress shoes—start breaking them in early. Wear them around the house for short periods each week to avoid blisters or sore feet.
This is especially important if you’re wearing heels that are taller or shaped differently than what you’re used to. A few months of practice will help you stay comfortable longer on your wedding day.
And guys, this applies to you too! Nothing ruins the celebration faster than painful hotspots or blisters from stiff new shoes.
Tan Lines
Summer is my favourite season—long days, warm weather, patio time, and that gorgeous sun-kissed glow that makes everyone look amazing. But if you're planning a summer wedding, be mindful of tan lines that might clash with your dress’s neckline, and backline!
Pro Tip: If you’re like me and always have a hair elastic around your wrist, remember to take it off occasionally to avoid awkward tan lines. The same goes for watches!
Location Permits, Policies & Waivers
If you’re hosting an outdoor wedding—whether in a park or another public space—double-check whether you need a permit for chairs, an arch, or any decor.
In the Lower Mainland, each city has its own rules. For example, Whistler Municipality requires permits for outdoor weddings, and certain park locations are designated for ceremonies. Since permits can take time to process, starting 4-6 months in advance gives you the best chance of approval before your big day.
Bonus Tip: If you’re getting ready at a hotel, ask if you need permission or a waiver to take photos in common areas. Some properties have specific rules or designated spots for photography.
Hiking Elopement-Specific Tips
If your wedding day includes a hike—whether it’s a just-the-two-of-you adventure or a trek with your closest friends—these wedding planning tips will help keep you energized and pain-free!
Practice Hiking with a Packed Backpack
Carrying a full backpack can strain your shoulders and back. Doing a few practice hikes with a weighted pack (even short ones) in the months leading up to your wedding will help you adjust to the weight and avoid discomfort on the big day.
Breaking in Hiking Boots
New hiking boots? Break them in well before your wedding! A few short weekly hikes in the months beforehand will help prevent blisters and hotspots, so your feet stay happy for the post-hike dance party.
Permits & Pets
Check if your chosen hiking location requires a permit—rules vary for provincial land, Crown land, and private properties (like Mt. Seymour). It’s always better to confirm early for a stress-free day.
And if you’re bringing your fur-baby, make sure they’re allowed! For example, dogs aren’t permitted in Garibaldi Park, but Mt. Seymour welcomes them.
Final Tip: Book Key Vendors Early
Photographers, florists, and permits book up fast—another one of those wedding planning tips no one tells you until it’s almost too late.
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